Saturday, July 2, 2011

WHY HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU right now

~scene one~
You’ve caught his eye
He’s captured your heart
You feel some sizzle
He senses a spark
But why doesn’t he focus
On you and you alone?
You may feel you love him
But you can’t tell if he loves you back…
Why?
 
~scene two~
He is a boy
And if you are wise, you’ll know:
If you smother him,
He will run.
If you offer your best smile,
He’ll still compare you to others.
If you laugh at his jokes,
He will know when you are faking.
If you begin to compete for him,
He is not into you for the long term.
He may not know what love is.
He is a boy.  He is not a man.
 
~scene three~
He is a boy.
He wants to have fun.
He may be annoyed by drama.
He’s not really into commitment.
He is naturally curious
About lots of girls
And lots of other things.
If you waste time trying
To get his attention,
Then you’ll probably
Miss giving yourself attention.
 
~scene four~
If you waste energy on him,
Then you may miss thinking about your own dreams.
If you waste time trying to get
Him to notice you,
Then you may miss opportunities
For your own education and experiences.
If you focus on him,
Then you are not focused on you.
He is a boy with no guarantees.
You are a girl with unlimited potential.
 
~scene four~
In the years to come,
You’ll know he’s becoming a man when
He respects your dreams,
He admires your dedication to your education,
He wants you to be successful.
He doesn’t hold you back.
He likes that you’ve made goals
and achieved them.
His education and career are a priority too.
 
~scene five~
One day you’ll know he’s a man,
And by then you may or may not remember his name.

GSE

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